# What KinkEU is

KinkEU is where adults meet other adults for kink. It is for people who lead, people who follow, sex workers, and the people who run events and venues. Here you can book time, publish a page of your own, run an event, and keep everything else private. Everybody here declared their age and chose to be here.

## What you can actually do here

You can search for people by what they offer and by how far away they are. You can read somebody's own page and ask them for time. You can write to them, and speak to them, without either of you handing over a phone number. You can find events and venues near you and say that you are coming. You can publish a page of your own. You can take the test, and you can play the party game with the people already in the room with you. Most of it costs nothing.

## How it goes when you start

Four things happen and then you are in. You answer the age question once. You give an email address and we send a code to it. You type the code back. Then the app offers to make a passkey so that next time is one step, and you may say no and keep using codes. Nothing about you is public at that point. Whether anybody can find you is a separate decision you make later, on purpose.

## Why this was built at all

Because we never take a payment, no payment company can decide who is allowed to be here. That is not a small thing. On most platforms the rules about who may publish, and what they may say they do, are set by whoever moves the money, and they change without warning and without appeal. Here you are paid directly by the person booking you, on a link you publish yourself. It costs us the ability to refund anybody, and it buys everybody else the right to stay.

## Who may lead

Women, trans women and non binary people may lead here. Men follow. A man is never a Master or a Mistress here. Nobody can ask us for an exception to that. Women, trans women and non binary people may also follow, or do both. Every relationship here needs at least one woman, trans woman or non binary person.

## Anybody may leave, at any moment

You can end any arrangement you made here. You can do it alone, with no notice and no reason. Nobody has to agree first. No contract written on this site can take that away. A clause that says otherwise counts for nothing here.

## The short list that does not bend

Everybody here is an adult and said so before coming in. Anybody may end anything they agreed to, at any moment, alone and without a reason. Every relationship arranged here needs at least one woman, trans woman or non binary person in it. We never hold, move or refund money. Nobody buys a better place in a search result. Those are not preferences and there is no way to ask for an exception to any of them.

## The name

KinkEU here means Experience Unlocked. It does not mean Europe. It is a name and nothing more. Nothing on this site sits behind a payment. There is no level to reach.

## What we cannot do

We never hold your money, take a payment or give a refund. We do not know that anybody is who they say. A badge names one checked fact and nothing more. We cannot make anybody safe. No website can.

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