Adults, 21 or over
Everybody here is 21 or over and said so before coming in.
Private by default
A new account is in no search and on no map.
You pay directly
Money you pay a provider directly never passes through us.
How you find a person
Everybody who publishes here describes what they offer using the same list of words, and you search using those same words. That way a search means the same thing to both of you. You can hold it to one city, or to a distance from where you are standing. What comes back is a card carrying the words that person chose for themselves. Open it and you reach their own page, written by them, with their own prices and their own way of being asked.
Nobody can find you until you ask
A new account is in no search and on no map. It stays that way until you turn being findable on, and you can turn it off again in a moment. Being here is not the same as being listed. You can read the whole site, take the test and keep an account for as long as you like without one other person knowing you exist. What you show is a decision you make over and over, not once at the start.
Events, venues and the people who run them
This is not only people meeting people. Clubs, dungeons, munches and play parties are listed by the people who run them, with the date, the place and the rules of the room written down before you go. A venue keeps its own page the same way a person does. If you are the one hosting, you decide who can see the listing and who is allowed to ask for a place in it.
What it costs to be here
Most of it, nothing. An account is free and searching is free. Writing to somebody new, and a few other actions, cost a few Keys, the unit we count inside the site: you can earn them or buy them. You see a price before you agree to it, never after, and a price goes up only after advance notice. Anything that helps a person stay safe stays free whatever happens to the rest.
What you pay each other directly never passes through us
Whoever you book can be paid directly, in cash or through a payment link they publish themselves. That money never passes through KinkEU: we never hold it, never move it and take no cut of it. It also means we have no say over it once it is paid, and we cannot settle an argument about a payment we never saw. If you pay in Keys inside the app instead, the Keys reach them at once, less a fee of 1 Key on a payment worth more than 5 US dollars, and nothing on a smaller one. Either way the deal is between the two of you, and KinkEU is not a party to it.
All of it, in twenty one languages
The site and the app can be read in twenty one languages, chosen from the globe at the top of every page. Anything not in your language is shown in English.
A badge names one checked fact
Some things about some people are checked here, and a badge records the one fact that was checked and the day it was checked. That is the whole of what it means. It is never us saying that somebody is safe, honest or good company. A person wearing every badge can still be somebody you would rather not meet, and a person wearing none may be fine. Read what the badge covers, then decide for yourself.
Who profits from KinkEU
Nobody profits from KinkEU except providers, from their own services. The people who made it take no profit, salary or income, and its own income is spent automatically on the project itself.
Not an ordinary dating app
KinkEU is a filtered world for real connection with real people from the BDSM and fetish community.