Meeting people
Find people who share what you are into, near you or anywhere in the world, on your own terms.
- Meet shows one list of people you might want to meet, narrowed by role, when they are free, what they are looking for, age, distance and more, and your filters are kept on every device.
- Each card shows their photos, their role and what you are both into, with Pass, Super like, Like and Message.
- A couple appears as one card, and Message the couple starts one group chat with every partner who accepts it.
- Desires lets you pick what you are into and curious about, so people who want the same can find you, and your hard limits are seen by nobody but you.
- Search finds people by name, username, tag or city, and a kept search can tell you daily or weekly when somebody new matches.
- The map shows people, events and venues city by city, and never anybody's exact place.
- Travel plans let people in another city find you on the days you will be there.
- Nobody can find you until you turn on Let other people find me, and paying never changes the order of any list.
- Favourites keep the people you want to remember, with a private note only you can read.
- The kink test gives you a result that stays private until you share it, and you can compare results with someone only when both of you agree.
Your profile and your own website
A profile you control part by part, and a website of your own if you want one.
- Every part of your profile has its own Who sees this, from only you to every signed in member.
- View as others shows your profile exactly as a friend, a follower, another member or a signed out visitor sees it.
- Your profile picture and your cover can each be a short, silent moving loop.
- Quick facts such as body type, height, tattoos and piercings are optional, each with its own switch to show or hide it.
- A new profile or a change is checked before others see it, and if it is turned down you are told why and how to appeal.
- My site turns your profile into your own website, with templates, sections, blog articles, a contact form and a short address.
- Your website can be published, unlisted for the people you give the link to, or not published at all.
- Your website's visits are counted with no cookies and never narrower than a country.
- You can change your username, and the old one stays reserved for you.
- Contacts keeps your friends, followers, subscribers and your own categories, and nobody is told which category they are in.
Posts, reels, stories, tales and books
Share what you make, with the audience and the price you choose.
- Explore is the feed of members' posts, with For you, Following, Nearby and Tales.
- Every post, reel, story and live can be shown to all members, followers, friends, close friends or one of your own categories, and never to the public internet.
- A post can be locked with Keys, all of it or after a free preview, and people who opened it keep it.
- Reels are short vertical videos, with likes, comments, saves, shares and tips.
- Stories stay up for 6 to 48 hours, can be kept from people you choose, and wait afterwards in an archive only you see.
- One story card can hold two to four photos and films in a layout, with your own words on it.
- Long films are sent in pieces and carry on from where they stopped if the connection drops.
- Tales are written stories published chapter by chapter, free or opened with Keys.
- Tales can be searched by several themes at once, starting on themes that fit who you are and whom you look for, and For you can put the writers you look for first.
- Members can publish and sell books, as e-books, documents or audiobooks, to read or hear inside the app.
- Saved keeps posts, reels, items, events and messages in private collections that only you see.
- You can follow hashtags, and what you follow shapes For you.
- Updates send a short message to your followers or subscribers at once, now or at a time you choose.
- Files keeps your photos, films and voice notes in albums, with free storage for every member.
Music
Songs made and shared by members, free to hear for every member.
- Music has shelves of new songs, popular songs, moods and playlists, and its player keeps playing while you use the rest of the app.
- Lyrics follow the song line by line wherever a song has them.
- The queue, Autoplay with songs like the last one, and Smart shuffle, which marks every song it recommends.
- Your music keeps your liked songs, your own playlists and your own songs.
- Artist pages show monthly listeners, popular songs and albums, and open the artist's profile.
- Members can upload their own songs, or publish one they made in the Studio, once the song and its words are checked.
- A song can be sent to a chat or a group, or posted to Explore, and it plays only inside KinkEU.
Chats and calls
Private conversations, groups and calls, with you deciding who may reach you.
- Chats has tabs for private chats, groups, unread chats and requests, and folders you make yourself.
- A first message from someone new waits under Requests, and pictures from people you have not replied to stay covered until you choose to see them.
- Who can reach me sets, group by group, who may write first, carry on a conversation and call you, with presets that set it all in one press.
- Reply, forward, edit, pin, react and schedule messages, and set photos to disappear after they are opened.
- Voice messages and round video messages, recorded with a hold, a lock or a tap.
- Voice and video calls, one to one or in groups, with screen sharing.
- A member may set a price in Keys for messages or calls, always shown before you write, and Keys for an unanswered paid message come back by themselves.
- Auto-messages send your own welcome to people who write to you for the first time, after a delay you choose.
- Muted words hide message requests and search results that contain them, without deleting anything.
- Saved messages is a private chat with yourself.
Live streaming
Watch and go live, free or with a ticket, for the audience you choose.
- See who is live now and what is coming up, and watch a free stream at once or a paid one after its price is shown.
- Approved providers go live for all members, their followers, their subscribers or one of their groups, now or at a set time.
- A ticket is paid once in Keys for one broadcast and never renews by itself.
- Viewers can send gifts and tips in Keys during a stream.
- While live you can pause, add a camera from another device, invite co-hosts, choose chat moderators and send your viewers on to another live.
- Your weekly live hours and your coming lives can be shown on your profile.
- Groups can hold live voice rooms, where the hosts choose who speaks.
- Streams are not recorded.
Creating in the Studio
Make pictures, films, songs and stories with artificial intelligence, for verified members 21 or over.
- A writing partner creates stories, scenes, captions and role play with you, in any language.
- Images and videos are made from your own words in any language, and Improve rewrites your idea so it comes out better.
- Improve rewrites your words for a picture, a film, a song or your assistant, shows its price before it writes, and changes nothing until you press Use.
- Before the Studio uses a real photo, you confirm that you have the right to use every face in it, and another member's face is used only with their permission.
- Songs are made from your own words, or as instrumentals, two from each request.
- An assistant can suggest replies in your own tone or answer the chats you choose, and its replies are always marked as an assistant's.
- AI partners are characters a member describes and gives a face and a short film, always adults aged 21 or over, never real people, and always labelled as AI partners.
- Members can befriend and talk with an AI partner, which never claims to be a person or asks for Keys, money or a meeting, and its maker can show it to other members or sell it once in the shop for Keys.
- The Studio can propose a whole story from your idea, make each picture and film in it at the price shown, and post nothing until you press Post.
- The content maker plans stories, reels, posts, shop items and songs and publishes them at the times you choose, once or every few days, and each item is paid from your bought Keys only when it is made.
- The setup helper asks you a few questions at a time and fills one long form with you, such as your profile, website, business card, services, shop or events, and nothing changes until you approve each change.
- Everything made in the Studio carries a small mark saying it was made there.
- Every price is shown before you confirm, and the Studio is paid with bought Keys only.
Keys, Pro and promotion
One unit for paying inside the app, with every price shown before you pay.
- Keys are the unit used inside KinkEU: one Key is worth one United States dollar, and a price can have two decimals.
- Prices can also be shown in your own currency for reading, while payments are made in Keys.
- Free Keys are given for your first steps and for inviting people who settle in.
- Paying another member carries no fee on a small payment and one flat fee above that, always shown before you pay.
- Verified members can withdraw the Keys other members paid them, and every request is checked first.
- Bought Keys are never refunded or exchanged for money, and gifts and tips are final.
- Keys history lists every top up, spend, return and payment you received.
- KinkEU Pro gives extra storage, a gold shield and one free promotion a month, and never a better place in search.
- Extra storage can be added by the month, for yourself or as a gift to someone else.
- Promotion shows your own profile, services, products, events or lives to more people, always marked Promoted.
Shops and subscriptions
Things members sell, each from its own seller, and subscriptions to the members you follow.
- The shop lists items from members, with search by item, seller or wishlist, and a basket that pays each seller on their own.
- Whose shop narrows the shop search to sellers of the side you choose, and starts on the side you look for until you pick another.
- Paid in Keys, the payment is held until the seller marks the order sent, and it comes back if the seller declines.
- My orders shows every order, where you confirm that it arrived or say that something is wrong.
- Digital items arrive at once, and made to order items stay paid for but held until they are delivered.
- Prize boxes always give at least a guaranteed item, with every chance shown and fixed before the first draw, where they are offered.
- Sellers can make discount codes, and a code is always checked against its own rules before you pay.
- Group gifts let several members pay towards one item together.
- Reviews come only from members who booked or bought.
- Members can offer subscription tiers that renew from Keys, some with a free trial, and you can stop renewing at any time.
Services and bookings
Book time with providers, online or in person, on terms you see before you pay.
- The provider list shows only approved providers, with filters for what they offer and where.
- You ask for a time and the provider answers by the date shown, and a request nobody answers lapses by itself.
- Before you pay you see the price in parts, any deposit, the fee and the provider's cancellation rule.
- Pay in Keys, in cash in person where the provider takes it, or by the provider's own payment method once it has been checked.
- A deposit in Keys is held, not sent, until the booking is done.
- Cancelling inside the provider's free or half window returns Keys by itself, and anything more is the provider's decision.
- Some providers verify buyers first, and anything paid before they decide is held and comes back if they decline.
- You can ask a provider to cancel or refund from the purchase itself, and you are told their answer.
For providers
Everything a provider needs to offer their work, once their application is approved.
- Write services with prices, length, extras, what you will and will not do, and a cancellation rule.
- Weekly hours, days off and extra hours, with a timesheet that shows everything on one calendar.
- Choose how you are paid: Keys always, cash in person, and your own payment methods once they are checked.
- Earnings lists every line as it was at the time, and you can take a copy of up to a year.
- Teams and houses, with revenue agreements that share income only once everyone named says yes.
- Discount codes and lower prices for groups, longer bookings and quiet hours, at your own cost.
- Verify buyers first, by a video call, a photo or a short video, on each listing.
- Sell in your own shop, run prize boxes and offer subscription tiers from the same place.
Events and venues
Parties, workshops and meetups, and places to book, listed by the people who run them.
- Find events tonight, this weekend, near you or online, filtered by date, distance and kind.
- For me shows the events with tickets meant for you or open to everybody, and each event says in one line who its tickets are for.
- Tickets are paid in Keys, can move to another date or pass to someone else where the organiser allows, and come back if the event is cancelled.
- The address of an event is shown once you are confirmed as coming.
- Organisers create events with tickets, guest lists, messages to guests, crew and door staff, and each event is reviewed before it goes live.
- Door staff let guests in by scanning their tickets, and several doors can work at once.
- Venues such as clubs, studios and playrooms can be searched by place, time, guests, equipment and house rules, and booked by the hour.
- Nothing is paid until the venue owner says yes, and the street address is given once your time is agreed.
- Members can list their own venue and answer the requests for it.
Groups, games and relationships
Ways to belong, to play together and to agree how you relate, with consent at every step.
- Groups where members talk and channels where admins post, with topics, rules, invite links and questions for new members.
- A group can say who it is for, and For me in the groups search shows the groups for everybody or for people of your role and gender.
- A group's owner can set an entry fee, membership tiers, paid posts and live room tickets, all in Keys.
- Party games with friends, online or face to face in one room, start only when everyone says yes, and nothing in them is for sale.
- Anyone can leave a game at any time, or lower their own limits without anyone being told.
- Relationships shows the arrangements you are in, and anybody can leave one on their own at any moment.
- In every relationship a woman, a trans woman or a non binary person leads, and a house is a relationship its leader shares with the people they asked.
- Control of your profile can be given part by part to someone who leads you, every change can be undone, and it can be taken back at once.
- Contracts let people write an agreement, sign it only after reading it whole, and keep every signed version, while KinkEU never reads or enforces them.
Safety and trust
Safety tools that are free for everyone, and rules that apply to everyone.
- KinkEU is for adults 21 or over, and everyone shown in anything uploaded must be 21 or over too.
- Where the law of the place you connect from asks for it, adult pictures and films open only after a short face age check, with no identity document.
- Verification is a short video check, and a verified member shows a red shield.
- Every upload goes through an automatic safety check before it is shown, and anything held stays out of view until it is decided.
- Your new photos and videos are checked for safety before anyone else can see them, and until then a short note tells you that only you can see them.
- Anything made or changed with AI, from a post to a song or a shop item, shows an AI info label that says how we know, and members can mark their own uploads Made with AI.
- Everything can be reported, from a profile to a single message, song or shop item, and the person reported is never told who sent it.
- Every report is read, and you are told when it was received and when it was closed.
- Every decision about you says the rule, the reason and whether automated tools or a person made it.
- Something reported that may break the rules can be suspended, hidden from everyone but the member who posted it while a person looks at it, and that member is told why and can explain before the decision.
- Decisions can be appealed free of charge, and an appeal against a person's decision is read by someone else.
- Block, mute and dismiss anyone, and nobody is ever told.
- Trusted contact plans tell a person you choose if you do not check in after meeting someone.
- Quick exit leaves the app in one press, and App lock asks for a passcode or your device unlock before KinkEU opens.
- Discreet app gives KinkEU a plain name and icon on your notifications and home screen.
Privacy and security
What you share stays with the people you choose.
- What the app sends and receives stays private on the way, so no company that carries it can read it.
- Members' pictures and films are kept private, and only someone allowed to see them can open them.
- Every new version of the app is signed, and your app checks it before taking it.
- You sign in with a passkey or your password and a code sent by email, and there are no phone numbers and no text messages.
- One device per account is the default, and a verified account confirms a new device with a short face check.
- Security notices list every sign in and every change, and This was not me signs that device out.
- Nobody can find you by your email address, and nobody is told when you look at their profile.
- Notifications name the sender but not the message unless you choose otherwise.
- Notifications on your device set themselves up again each time you open the app, so they keep arriving after an update.
- You can download a copy of your data, pause, deactivate or close your account yourself at any time.
Help, languages and the app
Help in your own words and your own language, on any phone or tablet.
- Ask KinkEU answers questions about how KinkEU works, in any language, and you can ask a person at any time.
- Support requests are answered by a person, and you can attach files that help.
- The app and this site are in 21 languages, with light and dark themes and your own date, clock and number settings.
- The Translation service translates other members' chat messages, posts, comments, bios and shop items into any living language, automatically or when you ask, with free characters every day.
- KinkEU installs from the browser as an app with its own icon, with nothing to download from a store.
- KinkEU is open worldwide, and your App region only decides which local rules apply.
- A glossary explains every term the app uses.
- After each update, What's new tells you what changed.